It is very surprisingly how everyone have so many ideas about how I should plan my solemnization aka wedding... it is really funni to see all my frenz having so many ideas to contribute... and a big thank you to them for volunteering their help in so many things... I suppose every gal have their own little dream about how the perfect day should be like...
In the past, I too have my own little dream about how my perfect day should be like... But since the day I start to plan for my own.. it came to me that in fact all the big woo has about the "perfect day" doesnt matter at all... everything is over in one day... but I still have another 14,600 days - 25,550 days (if I can live to 90) to spend with my other half... and when you think about it.. it is the probability of 1 day vs 14,600 other days... and so what if the one "perfect" day works out beautifully but another one day out of the 14,600 other days does not... it wouldnt help to say "but we have the one perfect day in the past, didnt we".
All these big woo ha-s about the one big day doesnt mean any significance to me at all now... I am more looking forward to spending the rest of my life down the road with dar as compared to looking forward to the day itself...
But still, things need to be done.. so I spent the entire day looking for a make up artist, my bridal bouquet and etc stuffs... by saying all the above doesnt mean that I should purposely make myself ugly on that day... hahaha... ultimately I still want to look prettier than normal... I found one lady.. but I am abit unsure about my decision... searched through the forums and there dun seem to be any good or bad comments on her at all... so I am a little worried that she might make a mess out of my face... =D... we'll see
