What leads to death of a relationship..?
It certainly doesnt happen overnight..
Given a case of a third party / a mistress / a gigolo in a relationship, one wun / cant fall in love with another guy / ger overnight.. (unless it is love at first sight.. which I dun bloody hell believe in..... I mean it will be toopidz to break off with your bf / gf for someone you love at first sight right??
Or maybe one partner had a one night stand with someone else and you happen to find out about it... but unless you catch your bf / gf on the spot with the other party... you will most likely only find out about that after some time... but come to think about it... that is surely not the one and only one night stand ur bf / gf has... you might have just caught the 37th one.. which means your bf / gf has been out playing for quite some time oredi..
You certainly wun run out of topic to talk to one another overnight.. (like yesterday you were still chatting about everything under the sky and today you totally have nothing to chat about...)
The only thing I can think of that will break up a relationship overnight is maybe both of you had a super doopy big agrument.. and you think no point being together anymore.. and both of you really broke off overnight... but it will still take some time before you will reach that eruption stage right??
Ok why am I saying all this... I am thinking since nothing can break up a relationship overnight.. it means that warning signs should have shown the alert that your relationship is collapsing, crumbling and falling out of pieces long ago right? Then what are the warning signs to look out for....?
1. You have nothing to chat to one another.. complete silence over the phone or when you go out... and this situation last for a few days continually..to a few weeks... (if it really lasts for a few weeks.. oh my goodness arent u bored??).. you will most likely have already give up talking to each other by then man...
2. You no longer do things together... or maybe you dun even have the urge to see each other.. ex: each of you have ur own plans for the weekdays or the upcoming weekends...not inclusive of ur partner in ur plans.. and this situation too last for a few days / weeks... so end up you havent seen each other for a few days to a few weeks...
The two scenarios are the most common killers in a relationship.. but I had one comical scenario... that is.............
3. When you happily put in a relationship / married on ur Friendster Account when you are attached / happpily married, all the while uploading sweet photos of you and your bf... BUT suddenly you removed all the photos leaving no trace of your bf / gf and change the status back to single...
If your bf / gf starts doing that.. beware man.. they are trying to get themselves hooked up with someone else... hahaha
