I saw a frenz's frenz blog today.. and it brings back memories, feelings and thoughts....she wrote that clinging to the past will nv help to progress into the future... letting go in a relationship doesn't mean that u love less, but instead, to have e compassion & loving-kindness to know when to let go. To not cause misery is love. Even if we make it till e end holding hands 2gether, e process itself is miserable, suffocating, pointless & tiring. We will end up hurting each other by clinging. At e end of everything, thr's no real winner-both r equally miserable.
U told me before U have already moved on, u urself told me that clinging on to the past U will never be able to progress into the future, U say that U will give her ur blessings if she finally found the right one for herself, U say U dun think of her that much anymore, U say U are happy.. U told me not to regret whatever decisions I have made in my life... I told U I nv did and I wun... and I hope U wun too.. and U say U wun turn back your head on the past... instead U would choose to concentrate on the future... the next thing I know U backed out on ur words... U said U nv moved on, U nv got used to life without her, U nv let go of the past relationship, U missed her... and U still want her back into your life... even though U still can't accept her choosing her job over U.... U are just too used to having her in ur life....
But I can't gurantee to U that holding hands with her for the rest of your life will be a misery for U... I know u will be much happier with her... I know both of U still like one another... I think the last part is for me.. i shouldn't cling on to u... becoz it will be tiring for both me and U...admit it as much as I dun want to.. we are not happy together... we will end up adding to each other's hurt and misery... no point... I know when to let go.. and trust me I am trying to....
