Less than 8 hours to the big day now..
Legs becoming more and more shaky..
Jialat.. starting to panic..(sweat)
Unable to calm myself down...
As much as I kept telling myself to relax..
Even though I kept telling myself nothing has changed much...
Saturday, January 26, 2008
Sunday, January 20, 2008
My Wedding Photos
Hmm I dun really have much time to edit all the photos becoz they are really huge files and will take tons of time to upload onto Blogger.. so I am just going to let you guys peek into the first 8... and then you guys will have to patiently wait for the rest to be up when I have the time again to edit and post..
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Thursday, January 10, 2008
More Frustrations, More Troubles..
I dun understand why everyone want to have a say on who to invite for my solemnisation.. is it my big day or theirs..?? Shouldnt have invite anyone in the first place.. invite also wrong.. dun invite also wrong.. invite this nv invite that also wrong...
Hello if it is ur big day.. i dun freaking care who u invite k? I just get my invitation and go down... no more questions...
I get questions like "why didnt you invite your bosses, why didnt you invite blu blu blu, why you invite that place, why you do buffet and not banquet dinner, why you not wearing a wedding gown.. why this why that!!!" Wah piangz eh!!!
Firstly I am not having my solemnisation at a kopitiam k... if not I can pretty much invite whoever that walk in to the kopitiam and treat them to a plate of char kway tiao anytime..!!! I have a budget and pax numbers to work with!!!!
Dar said "u dun go freakingly invite those people that you never contact in a year or more one hor.. for wat?? that is not the time for gathering lei!!" True la.. thus I can only invite people I am close with right...if not I will most probably end up with the whole of my secondary school, the whole of my polytechnic, the whole of my university, the whole of my office, the whole of my social circle... whoever that walked into my life before right?? like that i just treat all to pancakes can liao la.. since my mum operating a stall selling pancakes.. everyone just come sit in the kopitiam and eat pancakes enough liao.. then people will ask "how come you only treat people to invite pancakes"... still can complain.. even better... machiam now i am providing a service and you are the one being serviced.. what is this world changing to??!! Now i getting married also need to satisfy my guests machiam like they are my clients.. if not they will complain...
Hello I invited you.. good enough.. you want you come.. you dun wan you shut up!!! at first thought of inviting only 30 paxes.. then the list stretches to 50.. and now it is overflowing to 60.. and there is still the "invite this must invite that" names still coming in... I am not increasing my list anymore le.. this is nv ending... cap at 60.. max le.. dun give myself more headache..
Imagine I already have so much problem confirming pax count for a buffet.. imagine a seat down dinner.. still have to confirm whose coming and arrange seating arrangements.. good luck guys!!!
Hello if it is ur big day.. i dun freaking care who u invite k? I just get my invitation and go down... no more questions...
I get questions like "why didnt you invite your bosses, why didnt you invite blu blu blu, why you invite that place, why you do buffet and not banquet dinner, why you not wearing a wedding gown.. why this why that!!!" Wah piangz eh!!!
Firstly I am not having my solemnisation at a kopitiam k... if not I can pretty much invite whoever that walk in to the kopitiam and treat them to a plate of char kway tiao anytime..!!! I have a budget and pax numbers to work with!!!!
Dar said "u dun go freakingly invite those people that you never contact in a year or more one hor.. for wat?? that is not the time for gathering lei!!" True la.. thus I can only invite people I am close with right...if not I will most probably end up with the whole of my secondary school, the whole of my polytechnic, the whole of my university, the whole of my office, the whole of my social circle... whoever that walked into my life before right?? like that i just treat all to pancakes can liao la.. since my mum operating a stall selling pancakes.. everyone just come sit in the kopitiam and eat pancakes enough liao.. then people will ask "how come you only treat people to invite pancakes"... still can complain.. even better... machiam now i am providing a service and you are the one being serviced.. what is this world changing to??!! Now i getting married also need to satisfy my guests machiam like they are my clients.. if not they will complain...
Hello I invited you.. good enough.. you want you come.. you dun wan you shut up!!! at first thought of inviting only 30 paxes.. then the list stretches to 50.. and now it is overflowing to 60.. and there is still the "invite this must invite that" names still coming in... I am not increasing my list anymore le.. this is nv ending... cap at 60.. max le.. dun give myself more headache..
Imagine I already have so much problem confirming pax count for a buffet.. imagine a seat down dinner.. still have to confirm whose coming and arrange seating arrangements.. good luck guys!!!
Saturday, January 05, 2008
Frustration...
I dun think anyone can understand how frustered I am feeling now...
The big day is coming nearer and nearer... yet I dun feel a bit of happiness at all.. All I seriously hope deep down is that day will pass with me being happy and no major crop-ups.. pretty sad right?? I am a perfectionist... as much as I am expecting crop-ups.. I cant tolerate them... and I surely hope there isnt any....
All I feel is frustration...
I thought I will be very happy to plan all the little details.. but now I realised time is the thing I dun have...
All I have is 3 weekends left.. and usually I will be feeling so tired after a week of work that I dun even feel like doing anything at all expect for staying at home and nua... yet I have to drag my feet out to finish all the unfinished stuffs..
And more and more problems just keep popping up from nowhere... and it is starting to make me regret again why I find more trouble for myself in the first place by having a solemnisation buffet... I should have just go on a ROM honeymoon in Maldives...
My thoughts are since I already booked the solemnisation, might as well do it to the best I can... but then you simply just get more troubles along the way...
Dar auntie asked her children to be our page boy and flower gal.. that wasnt part of my plan... and now I have 2 additional things to bother and coordinate about...
Dar just got promoted at work... but his staff just left him so he is basically alone.. that make things even worse.. becoz I dun want to bother him with the minor details so i took them upon myself to make sure everything goes as planned..
I wanted to finish all preparations as soon as possible.. so that the day before will be all clear for me to enjoy some quiet times with my family... and besides I never like to do things last min as it makes me more frustrated and kan chiong.. but looking at my tight schedule.. I might still be rushing around trying to get things then.. how sad....
I think we finally managed to persuade his frenz not to get him drunk on that day.. becoz all things can happen once he get drunk and that is cetainly not the sight i want to see... but still nothing can be guranteed.. been asking my frenz (whoever can drink) to help in prevention.. and hopefully they are able to prevent anything bad from happening.. but when you have a crowd of more than 50 people.. I think crowd control is going to be a damn difficult thing to do... And besides I always hate entertaining.. yet this time I have / need to do the exact same thing.. I am just not as onz as I am in the past.. i think that comes with age... as you grow older, you just want things to do as planned in the book and you no longer can take anything outside the book...
Been searching ard for the ideal wedding guest book but till date, couldnt find any... feel like giving up but the mind just cannot let go... then there are others... started simple ended up making it more and more complicated... how funni..
Just hope the big day will run smoothly... no more complications.. no crop ups...
The big day is coming nearer and nearer... yet I dun feel a bit of happiness at all.. All I seriously hope deep down is that day will pass with me being happy and no major crop-ups.. pretty sad right?? I am a perfectionist... as much as I am expecting crop-ups.. I cant tolerate them... and I surely hope there isnt any....
All I feel is frustration...
I thought I will be very happy to plan all the little details.. but now I realised time is the thing I dun have...
All I have is 3 weekends left.. and usually I will be feeling so tired after a week of work that I dun even feel like doing anything at all expect for staying at home and nua... yet I have to drag my feet out to finish all the unfinished stuffs..
And more and more problems just keep popping up from nowhere... and it is starting to make me regret again why I find more trouble for myself in the first place by having a solemnisation buffet... I should have just go on a ROM honeymoon in Maldives...
My thoughts are since I already booked the solemnisation, might as well do it to the best I can... but then you simply just get more troubles along the way...
Dar auntie asked her children to be our page boy and flower gal.. that wasnt part of my plan... and now I have 2 additional things to bother and coordinate about...
Dar just got promoted at work... but his staff just left him so he is basically alone.. that make things even worse.. becoz I dun want to bother him with the minor details so i took them upon myself to make sure everything goes as planned..
I wanted to finish all preparations as soon as possible.. so that the day before will be all clear for me to enjoy some quiet times with my family... and besides I never like to do things last min as it makes me more frustrated and kan chiong.. but looking at my tight schedule.. I might still be rushing around trying to get things then.. how sad....
I think we finally managed to persuade his frenz not to get him drunk on that day.. becoz all things can happen once he get drunk and that is cetainly not the sight i want to see... but still nothing can be guranteed.. been asking my frenz (whoever can drink) to help in prevention.. and hopefully they are able to prevent anything bad from happening.. but when you have a crowd of more than 50 people.. I think crowd control is going to be a damn difficult thing to do... And besides I always hate entertaining.. yet this time I have / need to do the exact same thing.. I am just not as onz as I am in the past.. i think that comes with age... as you grow older, you just want things to do as planned in the book and you no longer can take anything outside the book...
Been searching ard for the ideal wedding guest book but till date, couldnt find any... feel like giving up but the mind just cannot let go... then there are others... started simple ended up making it more and more complicated... how funni..
Just hope the big day will run smoothly... no more complications.. no crop ups...
Wednesday, January 02, 2008
Happy New Year 2008!
The title says it all...
New year resolutions to be written soon... (that is when i have e time)
Been busy watching Huang Zhen Yi recently... Seriously beautiful, touching, emotional and sad....
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