Went out with my best pals in secondary school last Monday... met up for dinner at Pizza Hut, Causeway Point in Woodlands... as we chatted, somehow we came to the topic of babies and married life.. somehow as human ages, even the topics that was discussed in gatherings changed... last time it was studies and gossips, then it become work and gossips and now it become work, marriage, relationship and babies!
But anyway we talked about getting married.. and then babies came into the picture... and then we went into the topic of abortion... debating on the topic of aborting the baby should you be not ready for it or do not have the right mentality to take good care of it and give it the best... my frenz agrued on the basis that a baby is also a life and you should never kill a life....
To me, I think firstly I am too young... I am struggling to earn enough for myself.. I have a career to build... it is surely not the right time to have a baby now... I wun have the time and the financial capability to take care of the baby... and surely not the right mentality to be a good mother... they said when you give birth to a baby, you will change, your mentality will change.... but I dun wan to take the bet... I have seen people giving birth to a child at the young age only to regret their decision and ended up hating their child for ruining their life.. and with the wrong mentality you might end up hurting the kid in many ways you shouldnt..
I have a frenz who just announced that he will be a dad in Oct... he is beaming with radiance on his face.. very happy to be a dad... the couple is very happy to welcome the kid into their life and I am seriously happy for them too...
I too crave for a happy marriage life... and also a kid... I do agree that a marriage life can be enhanced with the birth of a child... when a couple comes together to take care of the child and share all the happiness and unhappiness that come with it... they bring their child out for a walk, to play at the playground... with a sweet smile on their face when they see their kid running around, laughing and smiling... that all comes at the right time.. when both couples are ready to take on the responsibility and burden of a kid coming into their life...
