Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Proposal or not??

What women really want for a marriage proposal?

Some like it grand and famous... like proposing over the big screen in the movie theatre or during National Parade.. perhaps even kneeling down in the middle of busy Orchard Road or some crowded restaurant.... where everyone around will go "wooo... wow.... ohhh.. so sweet.... " and clapped for you...

I dun like any of the above that I have just mentioned... try doing that and I make sure I wouldnt speak to you for at least a day....

Actually isnt a marriage proposal supposed to be the moment when two persons decide to enter into a ever-lasting promise to share their life with each other down the road..?? Thus it should just involve the very two persons and not many many ppl right..? What are you trying to prove... that your future husband really love you??

However it doesnt mean that a simple question of "Would You Marry Me" can do the trick.. after all we are talking about a marriage for life right?

Then.. what must be added on top of that question then??

It is true that I do not think that a proposal ring is neccessary.. after all you would have to get a engagement ring for solemnization.. then what's the extra proposal ring for..??

But still.. that doesnt mean that I will get myself "married off" at the pop of that question either... it cant be that simple as to a simple question of "Would You Marry Me" blurted out suddenly in the moment of time right?? Like what if any strangers on the streets come up to me with a "Would You Marry Me" question, do I have to consider about marrying him then.. after all he just asked the very same question all gers wanna to hear... I believe all gers are surely looking for something more than just the question... sincerity comes with more feelings shown from the bottom of the heart... doesnt mean flowers and a candlelight dinner is neccessary... sometimes it can be very simple.. but yet it touches the ger in the bottom of the heart...

But in any case.. is it really neccessary for a proposal after a couple has decided to committ to each other for life??

Hmmm... women are forever confusing and complicated creatures...